One of the reason why people get so sentimental is that because memories are the only things that do not change when everything else does. These are things in life that we cannot hold forever, no matter how tight we hold it in our hands, no matter how much we fight for it. Sometimes destiny is not always good, it becomes playful. Often we meet someone we learn to love and thought that it was destiny that made our path cross. But have we ever asked ourselves, “What if, it is just a part of the playful destiny create?” And then suddenly realize in the end that the person we thought that was destined for us wasn’t really meant to stay but only destined to make us feel loved and leave us when we are already fallen. 

It is not that easy to state a reason when you have decided to leave the person. Some might think that it was just an excuse, some does not believe at all; some will blame you and might even get mad at you. But what they don’t see is the facts that it also hurts us even more, hurting someone who does not deserve to be hurt, especially when we are asked for the reason and cannot state any of it. We can never own something that was never being ours. So let us stop gripping on things we expect to last forever. NOTHING LAST FOREVER. Forever is a lie. Everything in this world is transitory. So while we have that something in our hands, always put in mind that it is just borrowed. So that when it is gone, it would not take us eternity just to let it go. When our feelings get strong for someone, it is always wise to stop for a while and give our heart a time to breathe. A time to use our mind to weigh things based on reason and not in emotion. Because the saddest part that can happen to us is when we fall in love to the person that wants nothing more but friendship. 

Love can sometimes be magic. But magic can sometimes be an illusion! Sometimes we wish that we are limited to certain emotions so that we will never have to experience pain, never felt betrayed or disappointed, never been discriminated and never get our fragile heart be broken. But in contrary we will never know how it feels to love and be loved in return. Some of us would rather have a heart that is broken but real than to have a heart that is whole but numb. Someday, we will be looking back to those days we learned how to love and got hurt, the times we almost die because of crying, and the times that we fight hard because we thought it was worth fighting for.

Maybe when that time comes, we will be laughing at our dumb selves realizing how stupid we were to stand up for the things we knew that wouldn’t last and wasn’t meant for us. But whatever we do, let us just live life, let us just love and take whatever pain it may bring. Let us learn the art of letting go. After all, it is we who will become stronger and knowledgeable, yes broken! But at least REAL..